I have several posts including Self Love on this blog. I write under the name paula paulette and will have a new one about how to age in a most graceful way, providing of course you are fortunate enough to have your health. I recently met a man at a graduation party. He just turned 60. He has a beautiful lovely wife and children. I was in a state of shock when he told me he doesn’t think he will live a long life and wants to die at 75. Being older than that, to say I was upset was putting it mildly. Of course he is in the finance business, and me being of a creative mind, we could have been from different planets. He was on Lipitor and said he was going off soon. I asked him if he had diabetes would he go off insulin? He seemed to understand that. Seems a healthy man is already doing his countdown, or in golf terms, on the back nine. I prefer the woman in the latest O The Oprah Magazine, who is 100 and still teaching and looking wonderful. Having wisdom to share. Instead of fearing aging, why not embrace. The Golden Years may not be all that golden, but at least give them a try. The alternative is not so great!