I was wondering after reading my blog, what does being out there actually mean? Maybe outrageous activities like ski jumping, or joining a group, for seniors only. Taking trips, lessons re wine making, tasting, learning about everything gluten-free even though I have no issues there, pottery classes, how to fish in a humane manner, outward bound, beyond outward bound, flying lessons, bungee jumping, hanging out at a bar, club, Penn. Station, Grand Central, all the airports, joining any and every religious group, even though I am not religious, taking tours of every area in New York City and beyond, skeet shooting, cooking classes, and any how to do anything anywhere, and what I really want to do, a one woman show. I realized especially in New York, many women of all ages go to therapists to find out how to have a relationship, and then the rest seem to go to find out how to happily live alone for the rest of their lives. Not sure about all this. If anyone has ever said to a single woman, that you have to “get out there,” please give some suggestions where “out there” is.